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Were you a virgin before you got married...

were you happy with your decision and what did your s/o think?

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Asked by iluvmykidsxoxo at 6:52 PM on Nov. 28, 2010 in Relationships

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  • No

    Everything happens for a reason. My husband didn't look down on me.

    Answer by Simplicity3 at 6:54 PM on Nov. 28, 2010

  • ummmmm sure ;)

    Answer by SteelersChick at 6:54 PM on Nov. 28, 2010

  • HAHA... Not even close! If anything I would go back and have more sex if I could... And my SO couldn't care less... Neither one of us believe it's healthy to wait for marriage, and neither of us would have even dated the other had we been virgins... I don't want anyone I have to teach...

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 6:55 PM on Nov. 28, 2010

  • No I had a 5yo son, DH feel in love with me that way , he knew I had son. Happy for my decision?--I had a awesome son so it might not of been best choice but I would never change it.

    Answer by raisingmen at 6:55 PM on Nov. 28, 2010

  • No and still not married.

    Answer by trashymom at 6:55 PM on Nov. 28, 2010

  • I was not. Neither was he. Both of us have some regrets about being with the people we were with before. We don't mind that we were not each other's first.

    Answer by wildflowers25 at 6:56 PM on Nov. 28, 2010

  • yes I was a virgin 9 years before I got married, but not during those 9 years.

    Answer by kjrn79 at 7:00 PM on Nov. 28, 2010

  • No...DH was only the 2nd guy I slept with though, but we started having sex a month into us dating and got married after being together for 4.5yrs...

    Answer by dlandrum at 7:02 PM on Nov. 28, 2010

  • A big fat no for me too and the same for hubby.. We don't care...

    Answer by midnightmoma at 7:08 PM on Nov. 28, 2010

  • No. My husband wished I were a virgin when I married him.

    Answer by sweetpea1217 at 7:10 PM on Nov. 28, 2010

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