I have a 3 year old...almost four in january.. i recently left his father, and moved 2,500 miles away from him.. I got with someone that i am completely in love with and so is my son... my son doesnt really remember his father, and now calls my boyfriend daddy... I did not push this, he did this on his own... I allow my son to talk to his father, but everytime he talks to him he just tells him he wants his toys and his blankey... we moved very quickly and his things got left behind and so did mine... And this upsets his real father... So basically.. How do i get him to stop doing this... I really need some advice on this issue Just to carify things.... I left my husband because of abuse towards myself and my son.... He calls my boyfriend daddy, because he loves my boyfriend... He remembers the abuse and the fact that he got hit, and doesnt want to go back and see him... he just wants his toys and blankey... because i couldnt take all our things with me on a bus to a new life for us... So please i understand that you were not trying to make me feel bad, but i thought i should let you guys know the reasoning as to why things went down the way that they did.. i do not regret the fact that i am letting my son call my guy daddy, because he is a great man and loves us unconditionally.... with that said i really need some advice on this problem that i have... thankyouAnswer Question
Answer by Suzie2mom at 6:17 AM on Nov. 29, 2010
Answer by Musicmom80 at 6:41 AM on Nov. 29, 2010
Answer by Shanna84 at 7:45 AM on Nov. 29, 2010
If it upsets the man he can sent his son the stuff he misses. Or your son can collect some of it when he visits his Dad. He obviously remembers his father, and shouldn't be kept from him b/c it's convenient for you.
Answer by Crafty26 at 8:50 AM on Nov. 29, 2010
Answer by scout_mom at 9:28 AM on Nov. 29, 2010
Answer by ShouldHaveLeft at 9:37 AM on Nov. 29, 2010
Answer by PhilsBabyMama at 8:22 PM on Nov. 29, 2010
Next question overall
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