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Challenge: Spice Up This Sex Life! adult content

Okay you red hot mommas, here's a challenge for you.
You can't use any of the following, as the DH in question doesn't like any of it:
Lingerie or Costumes
Bondage of any level, including blindfolds

Give it your best shot!

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:23 AM on Nov. 29, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (9)
  • What doesn't like bj

    Answer by LOVLYLOVEKGS at 11:25 AM on Nov. 29, 2010

  • i already find sex boring. taking away all these would make it more so. so i refuse the challenge!

    Answer by melody77 at 11:27 AM on Nov. 29, 2010

  • Massage... victoria secret has a new "kissable" massage oil... Maybe he is a romantic and wants candles and music.. try that with the massage! :0)

    Answer by bjojola at 11:27 AM on Nov. 29, 2010

  • What man doesn't like a blowjob??? Try different positions. Get one of those sex position books and be creative. What about body paint? Paint different areas of eachother's body. Some of them are even edible so you can lick them off. Or how about food? You could use whipped cream or chocolate, feed him strawberries. You could try sex toys. He could use them on you, like a dildo or vibrator, or you could get a cock-ring for him. What about different types of sex? Does he like going down on you? Are either of you willing to try anal sex? Maybe he is the type of man that likes to have his anus played with. There are tons of things you can try, but if he is just a plain old stick-in-the-mud, there's not much you can do. Seriously, he doesn't like blowjobs?

    Answer by Shanna84 at 11:29 AM on Nov. 29, 2010

  • What man doesn't like a blowjob??? ......mine did not when we first went out, when i showed him how it is done, he loved it then , but not as much as some other fetish thing, we are not together anymore
    if a man does not like blow jobs, he MAY have interest in his backend
    just a thought, was the case with my recent ex
    also did not like eating pussy-big red flag now, will never end up with a man that does not tlike this-now i know he was not into a womans part

    Answer by fiatpax at 11:39 AM on Nov. 29, 2010

  • bubble baths with candles and play with yourself?

    Answer by ajj_mami_grace at 11:57 AM on Nov. 29, 2010

  • Karma Sutra. It sounds like thats about the only option.

    Answer by bellsandheels at 1:23 PM on Nov. 29, 2010

  • Your Dh is boring and not worth having sex with personally...

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:33 PM on Nov. 29, 2010

  • There are these candles that you light, and the wax is actually massage oil. So you let it melt, and drizzle it on his body, and massage him.

    Answer by Mme.Langley at 4:01 PM on Nov. 29, 2010

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