I never technically got legal or physical custody of my daughter considering the father and i were never married and he is not on the birth certificate. he does pay support and sees her sometimes. whenever he feels the need that he has time. he lives ina different state. he has not seen her in 4 months but that is not the issue at hand. i am just curious if anyone that does not have custody on paper now has gone for it in order to write a will? i mean the legal custody in order to legally be responsible to making all the decisions in her life and legally say who i would want her to live with if something happens to me. i read once even if i wrote i didn;'want her to live with her father if i passed that they would put her with her father anyways. i am not sure if that is true or not. just curious.
Answer by AngryBob at 1:06 PM on Nov. 29, 2010
Answer by skittles1108 at 12:54 PM on Nov. 29, 2010
Answer by admckenzie at 1:05 PM on Nov. 29, 2010
Truthfully only a lawyer knows this.
Answer by louise2 at 1:16 PM on Nov. 29, 2010