her husband is exactly like the bio-dad of my first. very selfish, extremely controlling, manipulative and verbally abusive. her husband is returning home from a year long deployment very soon, like this or next week. they fight constantly and have fought the whole time he's been gone, he thinks (well he's totally convinced) that she's cheating on him just because when she goes out (which she's done maybe 4 times since he's been gone) he's constantly IMing her and if she doesn't respond with a snap of the finger she's *obviously* screwing some dude. who wants to be somewhere with friends and stare at their phone the whole night? she has two children 1 of which is his and every mom deserves a nice break with friends. she doesn't deserve to be accused of anything, and each time she did NOT even drink she was the DD! she refused to dance with someone at a wedding recently because she was afraid someone would take a picture of them and it would end up on facebook for him to see. she picked up the father of her other child from the airport and arranged it so her daughter and him could see eachother and *of course* she was screwing him. tomorrow she's watching my kids so i can go to a Wake and he said "she better watch ours when i'm on leave" well hello this is a Wake for the grandfather of his best friend! her and I are NOT tit for tat. we don't keep score for crying out loud. he's such an asshole. and i never know what to say when she comes to me because it all reminds me of my ex whom I loathe so much. i wish i could tell her to just drop this asshole because he will NOT change and i know this to be true because my ex has NOT changed in four years. im worried for her sanity if she keeps walking on eggshells and trying to please a man that is IMPOSSIBLE!
Answer by sugaree at 2:01 PM on Nov. 29, 2010
Answer by aliceinalgonac at 1:13 PM on Nov. 29, 2010
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Answer by samurai_chica at 1:21 PM on Nov. 29, 2010