Our break is still very fresh to say the least (4 months). He cheated on me and I kicked him out leaving me in financial difficulties. He has been able to move on quickly and introduce our child to his gf. I was so angry by this because feel it was to soon to make a move like that. He asked me 2 wks ago to have a sit down with him as far as our expectations as parents. I told him I did not feel ready because I am too angry and would not be rationale to give me some time. However, he can take her out as he wishes and sleeps over her grandmother's house. But all he does is pick her up Sat because I work and is eager to drop her off or has his mother take her and drop her off. He does not communicate with me what his intentions are and has our daughter or his mother handle the situation. This angers me so the ultimata was that this weekend was the time he chose to introduce his gf to my daughter I was very angry about this. His mother came to my house and just walks in unannounced and I politely asked her to come outside and told her she cant come to the house until me and her son resolve matters and that I was sorry to please not take it personal. She went bcd and told her son that I disrespected her.
I know Im angry and I'm trying to keep my distance so that we minimize our arguments. I went to court last week for child support and custody/visitation rights. I just feel that since we really cant agree on things maybe we need to settle things legally. Am I wrong for taking this approach.
If you can't make the decision then I think its good to have the court do it, they will be rational and do what is right for your child, (most of the time).
Answer by bjojola at 1:36 PM on Nov. 29, 2010
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Answer by mom42107 at 2:08 PM on Nov. 29, 2010
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