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Would you make a deal with your s/o?

Say you want a thing that would not benefit the house hold. Something just you could use.... A personal thing, jewelery, trip, spa day...
Would you bribe your spouse with a certain sex act? My husband loves me to do this. I want to get a new sewing machine.. He asks me 'what kind of sex are you gonna do for that?"
Any one else do this stuff? It is sort of our little barter system.

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Asked by mmmegan38 at 3:00 PM on Nov. 29, 2010 in Just for Fun

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  • If only that worked....

    Answer by bjojola at 3:02 PM on Nov. 29, 2010

  • i wish i knew this before i got married and tried EVERYTHING with him. Now i like all of it and its all just part of our regular bedtime acts. Ugh why didnt anyone tell me i could bribe him with certain things! lol

    Answer by chanelsparkels at 3:04 PM on Nov. 29, 2010

  • If I tried to do that it wouldn't make a difference lol I am the one who wants sex ALOT more often than he does anyway.. I guess he would have to be the one bribing me

    Answer by Ctink8189 at 3:04 PM on Nov. 29, 2010

  • nope, I don't view bribery as healthy- and sex is something we both enjoy way too much to withhold anything but for certain occasions.

    Answer by ObbyDobbie at 3:06 PM on Nov. 29, 2010

  • Nope, He would never deny me something that I truly wanted. I may have to wait a couple weeks to get it but there is no bribery for it.

    Answer by Jademom07 at 3:11 PM on Nov. 29, 2010

  • Ha! We trade Backrubs for handjobs all the time : ) I will try to get a new purse for something....sounds like a plan!

    Answer by LuvMyMedic3ID at 3:38 PM on Nov. 29, 2010

  • lol no i get what i want so does dh

    Answer by san78 at 5:40 PM on Nov. 29, 2010

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