Hi Ladies...I need serious advice! Well, to make a long story short-We have had a major problem lately with a student that used to be friends with my daughter. A few months ago, I got a nasty call from her mom in the afternoon saying that my daughter pushed hers down and the counselor saw it and was involved. I called the counselor-she'd seen no such thing but said that this kid did want to see her. So it all goes down, I meet with the counselor and she tells me this: This girl accused my daughter and lied for 3 hours that my daughter pushed her down when it was the opposite. The girl got busted for lying but the counselor still told me that my daughter wasn't being bullied I guess there was no proof that my daughter had been pushed..but I believe that this girl is bullying my daughter in an odd sort of way. This girl has slowly isolated my daughter by spreading rumors about my daughter and buddying up to any friends she had. My daughter barely has any friends at the time-which highly concerns me....and another thing-after the "school's no contact" rule-the girl is now posting that my daughter turned into a "mini devil" on facebook...and to get at my daughter without directly talking to her, she will go up in class and talk to someone but look straight at my daughter. I'm not sure what this is considered but we cannot stop it from the school. and...Most of it is happening out of school-the girl hanging out with people and spreading rumors or the facebook usage. What can you recommend? I am thinking I'm going to either have to pull my daughter out of this school or take some sort of legal action because the school told me that if I brought it back into school-both children will be suspended. The funny thing is that the counselor told me that my daughter hadn't done anything but "stare" at this kid...and that's not bullying. So how can my daughter also be remprimanded..Is this bullying?
Thanks! Hate to share my drama but this is really getting to me...every chorus concert we have to attend, this girl's mother glares at my daughter and me..I always go away very upset. I really want this to end..I thought it would but even after my daughter avoids her-it seems to drag on and on and on..oh and by the way..if you haven't guessed yet-this kid is a serious compulsive liar-she changes everything my daughter says around.
Answer by mom2aspclboy at 7:16 PM on Nov. 29, 2010
I'm sorry to hear this and I'm actually really shocked that the school wont help because it's the schools job. I would go to the board of education in your county or whoever is above the principle. Try to go to someone in a higher position. This is something I wouldn't just leave alone. I do worry about the stupid mother who obviously has to much time on her hand, she needs to be smacked.
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