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Does it seem like some people are more in love with the idea of being in love, rather than the actual person?

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Asked by Musicmom80 at 7:31 PM on Nov. 29, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I am sure there are those who are but being in love with an idea, doesn't last long...

    Answer by older at 7:32 PM on Nov. 29, 2010

  • There are people out there... it's the same people who are obsessed with the idea of the wedding and not the actual marriage. It sounds good, but then the reality sets in and it isn't pretty.

    Answer by abbysmommy429 at 7:33 PM on Nov. 29, 2010

  • I think here are too many people who are in love with the idea of being in love, having a big wedding and in love with having sex....but have no clue what their partner or spouse is really like or if they are a good match.

    Answer by kerp1960 at 7:36 PM on Nov. 29, 2010

  • older! I have ideas all the time! I have ADD so you are damn skippy they don't last long! LOL

    Comment by Musicmom80 (original poster) at 7:37 PM on Nov. 29, 2010

  • some people do no thave to wish the wedding thing and still have idea that is love something it is not
    more wishing for love than having a loving partner

    Answer by fiatpax at 7:47 PM on Nov. 29, 2010

  • Yes, otherwise the divorce rate wouldn't be so high IMO

    Answer by marine_wife0520 at 8:37 PM on Nov. 29, 2010

  • Oh yes it does. People want to find someone and then a week later *BAM* they are "in love". Its silly to me.

    Answer by Mme.Langley at 2:21 PM on Dec. 1, 2010

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