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I found out that while I was at my mothers. He had numerous amounts of people in the house. I even contacted two of the chicks and she said she spent the night, they went out to dinner, I saw msgs that he sent asking this girl that he cheated on me with before to come over and stay the night. This is hurting my heart. I do everything is my opinion to satisfy him. In our past I caught him cheating while I was 6 months preggo and it ruined my world and NOW 4 years later its still the same. I feel like a complete fool for staying by his side this long and only to get shitted on :( I dont know what to doAnswer Question
Answer by Zoeyis at 4:21 AM on Nov. 30, 2010
Answer by JuJubean1979 at 4:23 AM on Nov. 30, 2010
Answer by AtHomeMommy-3 at 4:25 AM on Nov. 30, 2010
Answer by raemommy at 4:32 AM on Nov. 30, 2010
Divorce......get PROOF of what ever you have in writing......any emails from these women, make sure the FULL HEADERS are showing so court can see it came from them..that helped me when my EX made threats years ago! No sense in staying in such a marriage......you need to be strong and get out now while you can.
This will help you find headers in the EMAIL program you have..search for it and follow instructions. PRINT out the emails.
Have THEM send them to your email address..or if you can on the phone...send them to your email.
Get the proof while you can so you can show his infidelity.
Answer by LilyPondOasis at 4:33 AM on Nov. 30, 2010
Answer by pnwmom at 4:34 AM on Nov. 30, 2010
Answer by FITmama2B at 4:38 AM on Nov. 30, 2010
I'm with the others on this one... In his mind he knows that he can do it without any ramifications from you. The only way to stop this is to kick him out of the house, or you leave with your child(ren). You can beg, kick and scream all you want, he will not stop and it will only get worse. Just like a little kid, his behavior won't change unless there are serious consequences to his actions. One thing to remember...if he does vow to change once you have left him, marital counseling would be a MUST because you will have trust issues with him for years to come. If it were me, that wouldn't even be an option, I would leave and never look back. Good luck:)
Answer by shanlaree at 6:23 AM on Nov. 30, 2010
Answer by samurai_chica at 8:47 AM on Nov. 30, 2010
Answer by Ctink8189 at 9:17 AM on Nov. 30, 2010