I don't believe men can be loyal. It probably started with knowing my brother who is married used to always take a trip once a year with his married guy friends under the guise of shopping for Christmas presents for their wives..they would take an RV & make an hour long trip to the neighboring city where they would rent stripper/prostitutes to go along "for the ride". I've known about these trips since I was 16...so when I first started dating I didn't have a good outlook, my Dad passed when I was little so my brothere was the only male role model I really had until I became friends with a couple of guys, purely platonic later on in my twenties. These guys SEEM like total Mamas boys..I mean they are good guys to all appearances..but they also take trips to Vegas where they do unscrupulous things, and one of them doesn't even consider it cheating! He has it all worked out in his head somehow to justify it, I couldn't begin to explain it if I tried because I don't get it. I have always felt so bad for my ignorant SIL..my brothers friends wives, my friends respective wives & gf's..they are all good women and so trusting..if you told them their SO's cheated on them at least once a year they'd look at you like you were nuts..now when I hear women saying their husbands would never ever even consider cheating on them all I can think is they just don't know...ughhh, it makes me want to stay single forever!!!
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