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Why is sex such a big deal?

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:29 PM on Nov. 30, 2010 in Relationships

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  • If you don't have sex in your relationship, it is kind of like you two are friends or roommates. Sex gives you a stronger connection.

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 1:30 PM on Nov. 30, 2010

  • I meant why is it such a big deal to have it. Like if your not in relationship. Or married. Or whatever the standard is.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 1:32 PM on Nov. 30, 2010

  • It is not the most important thing in your life. Or at least it shouldn't be. I have always thought it belonged in a committed relationship to be meaningful. Casual sex is only physical, shallow and stupid.

    Answer by kerp1960 at 1:38 PM on Nov. 30, 2010

  • If ur not n a relationship then it's not a big deal. At least 2 most women. It is however a big deal 2 the guys cause they want it & that' s all that matters 2 them. I say if u meet a guy u like & u want 2 have hot sweaty sex with him then go 4 it. If not then don't & tell them 2 get over it.

    Answer by amy197 at 1:42 PM on Nov. 30, 2010

  • because people don't know how to control themselves.

    Answer by hobbitswife04 at 1:55 PM on Nov. 30, 2010

  • i really dont each his own right?!

    Answer by ChanellesMommy at 2:09 PM on Nov. 30, 2010

  • Sex is a big deal because without it babies would not be born, our population would decrease and mankind would die out! Sexual desire is good for us!

    Answer by bjane01 at 2:13 PM on Nov. 30, 2010

  • Casual sex is only physical, shallow and stupid.

    Only to dried up prudes like you.

    I think sex is something everyone should be enjoying the world would be a more peaceful place if people were having more sex. I know I am more relaxed many on here like Kerp need to have sex so they are not so uptight.

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:15 PM on Nov. 30, 2010

  • IDK, Sex is nice, and it is really good when we do it, but it is not top priority in our home. Thankfully we have the same type of sex drive,lol. I guess it just depends on the person/couple. To some it is VERY important, they have to have it everyday, to some a couple times a month is just fine.

    Answer by RheaF at 2:50 PM on Nov. 30, 2010

  • I think sex is important because when its done right it feels sooooo good. Now everyone has different drives and all but me? I like it not only for the dopamine but also for the bond it makes between my husband and I.

    Answer by elyssek832 at 3:48 PM on Nov. 30, 2010

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