I have babysat some of my friends children but when it comes time for someone to watch my kids they always have an excuse... Why even offer if you don't want to do it, freaking hell is it so hard to be honest about stuff. Shh I have a friend who I will say I have an appointment to go to and don't even mention my children being baby sat cause they are going to grandma's house . They instantly say Oh my kids are so sick, oh I wish I could watch them for you but we have a fever or my favorite we were up all night cause the kids are sick. SHIt don't lie just say you can't do it is all..
I offer to watch my friends kids cause I know how hard it is for parents to get alone time and to get sitters when they need it. I have baby sat almost all of my friends kids yet no one will take mine for an hour. My kids are well behaved and are shy but they listen and do waht you ask them to do..
Asked by Anonymous at 4:23 PM on Nov. 30, 2010 in About CafeMom
Answer by specialwingz at 4:24 PM on Nov. 30, 2010
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Answer by HotMama330 at 3:15 PM on Dec. 1, 2010
Have you ever thought that you offer help so you will get help back? All of us do in one form or another. You will eventually find a give and take relationship. They are rare and far between I will admit. I would love to sit for your babies, they sound wonderful.
Answer by rosetoes at 12:03 AM on Dec. 4, 2010