so it's been 4 months that we broke up. We were together for 12 yrs and through me for a complete loop when I learned that he was seeing someone else. I cant' even find a way to communicate with him because he just continues to do things that we supposedly agree and then does something else. I will admit I am very bitter and angry it is so bad that I even took it out on my mom...I fell like a horrible person. When I kicked him out because i found this text from another girl that was it I packed his bags and kicked him out. I told him that the least he could do is help me get on my feet being that this occurred unexpectedly and I had just gone part time with his support.
Fast forward to thanksgiving he asked me when do I think it would be a good time to introduce our daughter to his GF I told him that he should wait that it was too soon. Regardless he went ahead and did it any way, I felt like he added salt to my wounds. In addition, we have a financial arrangement that he is not keeping to the full extent to the point that I may get evicted by next month. I have some savings and maybe able to get by for a month or 2. Have been looking for 2nd job....no luck. So we cant even talk without fighting he acts disrespectful but demands respect I had asked him to keep his distance from me till I cool off. But thingd have occurred that have forced us to speak for the sake of our daughter. I told him that I filed a petition for child support and that if we cant agree on raising our daughter or agreeing that we could use a mediator.....he feels that money can be towards our daughter. I feel that if we cant come to terms then it's a mediator or just pursue custody/visitation rights to avoid any additional fights.
He now wants for us to try it alone w/out mediation....I agreed but he does not communicate and uses his mother to drop her off or make arrangements. The lady barged in my house w/out notice I was so pissed that i asked her to kindly step out and told her i was not comfortable with her coming in my house till i resolved things with her son. It's so hard to deal with this because she has always been over bearing and he never was able to handle me and his mothers differences. So glad I don't have to deal with her anymore I can treat her the way I really feel direct and indifferent. Him cheating on me has left me angry bitter and resentful I'm trying to work on that but it is difficult things happened so fast...I know it will get better but it just seems like I am in a rut :(
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