Yes, between my ex husband, and my father (who left my mother for a younger woman when I filed for divorce) I really didn't even want a man. But, 3 years after my divorce, I was out with my son on a Friday night, got lost, and ended up at a little seaside restaurant where this totally out of control, goofball guy was, I told my 4 year old son...who was totally enthralled with the guy wearing a plastic pig nose and juggling cans of beer "don't look at him, don't talk to him, don't encourage him". The goofball heard me, and followed us around for the rest of the night....23 years later, we've been happily married for 22 years.....and got married a year after we met at the harbor, right between the tables where we met. He's been a wonderful father (we had 2 more sons) and great husband.
Good luck, hope you find the right guy, they have a way of showing up when you're not looking..
at 11:48 PM on Nov. 30, 2010