Thanks for taking a moment to consider my question.
I am a married woman who is having to deal with another woman being inappropriately interested in my husband and keep a smile on my face. This person participates in a sport my family and I are a part of. She considers herself a fan of my child who has made a name in this sport.
Her interaction with my husband was in my opinion very flirtatious, enough to cause me to question him directly. I was reassured it was ridiculous, at the time.
She is a FB friend of both my child and husband. I have been introduced to her as WIFE personally. Shortly thereafter, she informed my husband via FB that she finds him "sexy". He immediately informed her of crossing a line. I do feel the flirtation was inappropriate enough to encourage her to confess attraction. He apologised and admited unintentionally leading her on.
This being difficult enough to deal with as a parnter but as a parent, I wish to deal with others in an impeccable fashion. It is essential I do so. I also wish to teach the fact that her behavior is disrespectful and inapropriate twards a married person.
Unfortunately, I / we have to see this woman for several more events.
Every time I think of having to see this person again and deal with this blatant disrespect, I feel rage.
I don't know how to deal with this positively. I have violent feelings about it.
Does anyone have suggestions for a brilliant, impeccable way to get the point across in all respects? To show my child to respect a bonded couple and kick this tramps ass as I'd so very much love to do?
Thanks for any and all suggestions,
Asked by Anonymous at 12:08 AM on Dec. 1, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by AshleyBishop06 at 12:18 AM on Dec. 1, 2010
WOW! i would feel Violent Too if this was happening to me! But, to set the right example for your child- kicking her Ass really isn't a option- & she is Not worth it- She is Unbelievable to go after your husband- at a Family Sport that you are All involved in- i would have cut her some slack if she wasn't sure if he was married but, to know who you are & have to face you at your event- She definitely has No Respect for herself or Anyone Else! i would probably wait until the next event & if she continues to be Flirty with your husband, i would either pull her aside when it is over, e-mail her or call her & ask what the hell her problem is- i would let her know she has over stepped every boundary & she needs to leave your family alone b/c she is messing with the wrong one! Wishing you lots of luck-
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