Three weeks ago my husband told that he needs to go to job interview to another country, I stated 'great' we can join you that country and my parents can come there. He bought for himself the cheapest tickets. Meantime, two weeks later my mom was hospitalized and my parents decided they won't be able to come. They suggested me and our daughter to come to their home country instead, for the period that my husband will be on job interview. Our daughter was happy.
My husband though got extremely mad, he told that I do not respect him, that he does not have power of decision and there is no family exist, he demanded that I start process of divorce and left house knocking the table with his feast in front of 6 years old.
I was after teaching 3 university courses, tired, hungry and frankly did not know how to react. He told that he is not going to start process of divorce, but that I should...
This weekend he had trouble when we scheduled play date with 6 years old thinking he will be at work, he got very upset when we did not canceled it, he did not speak with us, did not eat the food I and my daughter cooked him...
Before this he literally spent majority of his time at job trying to get tenure in academy (including weekends). When I asked him to be involved more with our daughter's school (separate big trouble) he just refused. When I asked that he help our daughter with math homework- he pretended he did, but actually made our daughter cry and told her several times that she is stupid...
I don't know I just feel horrible. help.
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