I had a baby 11 months ago and have no desire for sex. I would rather gouge my eyes out with a spoon than have sex. I think it has a lot to do with my suffering relationship with my dh. He doesn't help out around the house and since I'm dealing with some depression he doesn't understand how I'm feeling. I feel empty inside like my whole life comprises of taking care of my son with special needs. I used to work and go to school full time. Now I'm a SAHM. I'm not very domestic and I extend past my comfort zone in being this type of person. I feel like I'm going to go suicidal if I continue being a SAHM, but I have no choice right now. I'm extremely lonely with no real life friends and family that is all preoccupied by their lives. What can I do to want sex again?? I used to be very sexual - sex at least 6 times a week. Now I have went like three weeks without having it and I don't even notice that it's been that long.
Asked by Anonymous at 7:20 PM on Nov. 5, 2008 in Relationships
First you should seek help for your depression, set your man down and have a heart to heart talk tell him what you need from him. As far as friends go how many of us have true friends anyway lol! You having such a baby changes your priorities and hormones are probably still crazy. As far as suicidal everyone has those thoughts now and then when going through tough times if they say they don't they are in denial.Just hit the floor with a different attitude tommorrow, keep telling yourself you can do this and nothing and no one can do anything about your situation but you. Get a hobby that you truly enjoy jewelery making is fun and you can sell it on ebay. Make a journal and write how you are feeling everyday and then in a week or so see if you can't see a change in yourself by just being positive and trusting GOD!
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