I stayed at my parents, got a job, paid off debt like crazy, didnt waste money on fighting him with an attorney, was cheaper to just pay the debt off and move on. The first year I paid off $10,000 of debt, the second year I saved like crazy to move out. Was very hard and luckily my parents let me live rent free for 2 yrs to put mylife back together. I was very careful about picking any men because I worked so hard to put my life together I didnt want someone to come in and dump me with a mess again!!
at 11:51 AM on Dec. 1, 2010