last night my bf was messing around and had a bowl of green beans and was trying to get me to eat them , then he grabbed the back of my head and stuck the bowl to my mouth and started trying to dump them in my mouth and i did nt want them , i kept telling him stop stop then i started yelling then finally cussing and he just wouldnt let go of my head so then after struggling with him for like 3 minutes i slapped him in the face and then he got mad and threw the bowl of green beans and they hit the wall and splattered all over my bed and end table, he said i was over reacting and it was just a joke. i told him he need s to respect my boundaries and when i tell him to stop he needs to stop. what would you have done and do u think i reacted in the wrong way?Answer Question
Answer by mommyof2bbys at 12:14 PM on Dec. 1, 2010
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Answer by mommy2zayden at 12:35 PM on Dec. 1, 2010
I think the situation was actually the BF's fault to begin with...grabbing your head and FORCING something down your throat indicates a serious issue with him...even after telling him to STOP which is NO in my book...you did what you had to to stop the "violence" he was putting on you. Fuck everyone with the whole you shouldn't of slapped him BULLSHIT! He was the instigator, he was in the wrong to begin with. I would never see him again for fear of what else he is capable of doing!
Answer by Anonymous at 12:53 PM on Dec. 1, 2010
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Answer by SMALLfry05 at 11:28 PM on Dec. 1, 2010
he sounds psycho imo. he was wrong forcing the bowl into your mouth then he threw the bowl of beans which splattered all over !? i see trouble in your future. i would get out if i was in that situation.
Answer by maya123 at 4:01 PM on Dec. 2, 2010