I met this guy while at Starbucks a month ago...we've been texting back and fourth and he's very sweet and he took me on a date Monday night, we went to Panera to eat, went sight seeing around the city then to a little bar, had a few drinks...talked and then he took me home. Well tonight we are having date #2...we are going to a fancy Italian place and then to a movie.
He's a bit older than me, he's gotten himself pretty financially sound, he's a hard worker, sweet heart, he'd give you the shirt off your back if you needed it. He helps take care of his mom, he has a full time job, a bachelor's degree and two cars. (Not trying to sound like a gold digger but it's important to be because I'm looking for someone to settle down with...not just casual dating).
There's only one issue...
He's really not that attractive. I don't mean to sound shallow, I'm not at all. I'm perfectly fine with dating someone that is not "gorgeous" but I'm just wondering...do you think that since his personality is so great and we get along so well, he'll grow on me and I'll start to think he's more attractive for other reasons? Have you ever dated someone you weren't that physically attracted to at first and then grown more attracted?
Let's face it...attraction does matter...
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