DH had a vasectomy a few months ago because we didnt want anymore children... i tried asking him before he did it if he was postive... he did not budge... i asked him if i didnt want him to get it would he wait... he said he would wait but he said he really didnt want to wait... i didnt want to be the nag and the reason things go down hill so he got it done... now i want another but was thinking about adoption... when i tried to bring it up he said... i thought this would be something we would talk about in like 5 years or more then think about it... so i dont think that he wants more... but i do... have you been in a situation like this at all or anything... any advice... do i just settle with just having our little boy... which i am greatful i have i would just like to maybe have a daughter also... or maybe another little boy... i feel so selfish now... what do i do?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 4:51 PM on Dec. 1, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Steph319 at 4:54 PM on Dec. 1, 2010
Answer by cornflakegirl3 at 4:55 PM on Dec. 1, 2010
Answer by Scuba at 4:59 PM on Dec. 1, 2010
So he had a vasectomy? you defently are not having a kid with him then.
Answer by louise2 at 6:45 PM on Dec. 1, 2010