my husband cheated while we were living together and slept with the same girl 3 times. it was basically a "one night stand" 3 times and he broke it off cause he said he realized he really loved me and she was "just for sex". i didn't know he cheated until after marriage and im finding it hard to get over it cause he went back those 3 times. to me it wasn't just a "one night stand" 3 times. they hooked up after work and were not seing each other any other time except during those 15 minutes to do the deed. i feel disgusted still and get very angry that he didn't tell me. of course i wouldn't have married him if i knew so thats why he says he didn't tell me. whats your opinion?
Asked by Anonymous at 8:42 PM on Nov. 5, 2008 in Relationships
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He should have told you from the beginning or since he was being so self centered at the time & married you first, he should of not told you at all. What he did was wrong & shame on him. You have every right to be angry & should be until you decide that he can be trusted or forgiven. You may have not been married but you both had a commitment & he betrayed that. Your husband needs to kiss up until you can get over this or until you know that you can trust him again.
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