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Who is my babies father?

Please dont bash me. I had my period 11/10/2010 and it lasted 5-6 days, my periods are usually 5-6 days. I had PROTECTED sex (condom) four times with my soon to be ex husband all before the 22nd of november. I had unprotected sex (withdraw & once otherwise) with someone ive decided to be with on 11/24. Is it more likely that my baby would be my boyfriends given my ex & I used protection & checked the condom everytime? Im so nervous =(

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Asked by Anonymous at 8:24 PM on Dec. 1, 2010 in Pregnancy

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  • if you used protection i would assume it was from the unprotected partner (the bf.)

    Answer by princessbeth79 at 8:25 PM on Dec. 1, 2010

  • Sigh....the new guy

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 8:25 PM on Dec. 1, 2010

  • Santa Claus. It is Santa's baby. Santa is the baby daddy. Yes, Santa.

    Irresponsible decisions lead to all kinds of interesting problems, don't they?

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:25 PM on Dec. 1, 2010

  • Honey you won't know till the baby is born. Don't say a word! When the baby is born, take a couple of hair sample from your bf's brush and have the DNA checked. If it's his, you just dodged a huge bullet, if it's not...well, at least you're not a Maurey Povich star with five options.

    Answer by ShouldHaveLeft at 8:26 PM on Dec. 1, 2010

  • I would say boyfriends, but you better do one of those drug store paternity test after it is born just to be sure.

    Answer by dancinintherain at 8:26 PM on Dec. 1, 2010

  • Yes it was a complete irresponsible decision. My husband cheated on me with a stripper and had left me, we filed for divorce, I had moved on. I will always love my husband, he wanted to work it out and I felt that was the best idea given we have three children together. Once I got there I realized how much I could not stand him & wanted to be with my boyfriend. My ex is a rageful person so I slept with him until I could leave. He had promised things would be different and they werent. It is a very messed up situation and I should have known better. But thank you for judging me =)

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 8:29 PM on Dec. 1, 2010

  • How did you know you were pregnant so soon.. I mean we are talking sex with each less than 2 weeks ago right? Or am I missing something... If you had sex with hubby before the 22nd, sound like his.. If you just had sex with the new guy on the 24th i say it is too soon for you to get a positive with him IDK...

    Answer by midnightmoma at 8:31 PM on Dec. 1, 2010

  • Mostly if all you say is truth I am going to have to say the boyfriend.

    Answer by karing4elmas at 8:32 PM on Dec. 1, 2010

  • You were probably ovulating around the 24th...but that's give or know you are pregnant already?? You haven't even missed your next period yet....? Did you test?

    Answer by gramsmom at 8:32 PM on Dec. 1, 2010

  • How many days are your cycles normally?

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:33 PM on Dec. 1, 2010

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