with out getting into pages of back story. My brother's have a history of being disrespectful too my mother or ignoring her completely. My youngest brother (after my mother spending the whole weekend getting things nice for his wife's baby shower) called my mom and yelled at her for making plans to come to his house "with out running it by him first" When I talked to my mother she was in tears b/c he was so mean.
So I called him up and told him, I thought he finally was going to be an adult and I guess I was wrong. Not to be disrespectful towards our mother b/c she goes out of her way to do nice things for everyone, and that she was welcome at my house ANYTIME. (there were other words thrown in, but that is the gist of what I said)
My SIL called and said I was a little out of line b/c I should let my brother and my mother work it out. My first thought and it is what I said was F... that. My SIL seems nice (they have been married 1.5 years, so I don't know her that well)
Should I have stepped in and said something, I always do, I have no fear of confrentation, I don't care if they are mad at me, I don't mind being the bad guy. But maybe I should have left it alone?
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