WOW, this is my first time to every date a man with children and if i knew it would be like this i would have never done it. We have been dating for about 2 years now, and i have tried had to have a decent relationship with his ex. Its impossible... I just want to say screw it... But I dont want her to ruin our relationship...what should i do??? How to I get her to accept that we are going to be together??? Please HELP!Answer Question
I don't think it is necessary for his EX and you to get along..You just have to deal with his kids..Let him deal with the EX..
Answer by louise2 at 10:07 PM on Nov. 5, 2008
Answer by JuliaDanielle at 10:09 PM on Nov. 5, 2008
Answer by hopelessnance at 10:11 PM on Nov. 5, 2008
Answer by jasesmommy0529 at 10:14 PM on Nov. 5, 2008
Answer by rhope4 at 10:44 PM on Nov. 5, 2008
When ever you date someone with "history" you will have "baby mama drama". It;s inevitable. Sorry. She's mad because she's young and either lost him and cant get him back, or he won't be a father to his child, emotionally and/or financially. These issues are frustrating.
Answer by Star419 at 10:48 PM on Nov. 5, 2008
Answer by jasesmommy0529 at 11:00 PM on Nov. 5, 2008
You don't need to deal with her. It's not necessary & your boyfriend doesn't have to deal with her attitude either. He only has to be responsible for their child & that is it. Every time his EX calls with a bad attitude, I would calmly tell her that I would be willing to listen when she can call me back with a more respectful tone or otherwise this conversation is over. Learn to walk away from it & let her know that her attitude will no longer be tolerated. Stay calm & as long as your boyfriend does this, there is nothing she can do or say to get him in trouble. As long as he is a good father & not playing the yelling game with her, you two will be fine.
Answer by onespecialmom at 11:40 PM on Nov. 5, 2008
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