I just found out that I am about 5 weeks pregnant and this is totally unexpected., I do not know what to do. financially I am not ready for another child (currently have 3 yr daughter) The thought of having another is scary. Fiancially I will be able to make it but it will be a bit of a challenege. My main concern is my family. I am 25 graduated college already on my own but they are so against me having another child with my daughters father adn having a child or children out of wedlock. This man is not someone I really want to spend the rest of my life with. I love him to death but he is not right for me. and being single keeps me drawn to him even more. but NOW I have a baby that is growig in my stomach. The only reason I would consider abortion is buecause of my family. I made a promise to myself and God at one point in my life that I would NEVER do that . I am constantly thinking of it now and how my life would be better if I did have it. I would be able to advance my career save money and my family. At the same time I will live a life of regret and heartache and destroying MY own for others sake. At times I seem like I have had my mind made up and other times I am not sure and so confused. I just need some advice and or some words of encouragement.
This is not a troll question if you can not be mature and answer Id rather no answers at all. Some people tend to think some situations are impossible to go through and therefore are troll questions when people post them. This is a very difficult time for me and would appreciate respect.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:12 AM on Dec. 2, 2010 in Pregnancy
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Answer by lovemybaby283 at 10:22 AM on Dec. 2, 2010
Hugs!!! Have you told the father? It is his child too he has a responsibility to you and the child and it sounds like you can use some emotional support right now as well. As for your family they need to realize you are an adult and some of the choices you make may not be ones they 'approve' of, but it is your life and they need to back off and let you life your life as you see fit. In regard to the baby whether it be give it up for adoption, keep it or have an abortion--- it is YOUR decision and you need to do what you feel is best for you and not do what others think is best for you. Follow your own heart and be true to yourself. Whatever you decide, I wish you the best and hope everything works out!!
Answer by MizLee at 10:24 AM on Dec. 2, 2010
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