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AF? kinda an odd question... adult content

OK let me start by saying yes this question is a little weird but i am NOT A TROLL! i really need a little advice. OK so i had a missed miscarriage at 16 week. i delivered my baby then had to have a D&C because i didnt deliver all of the placenta after a week. Now im lactating and have not gotten AF yet. Could it be because that my SO thinks its hot and "feeds" a little at night i mean not enough to empty me out or anything but i just dont know. could it be harming\slowing things down..... ANY ADVICE BUT I AM BEING SERIOUS PLEASE KEEP THAT IN MIND I AM NOT A TROLL

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 1:15 PM on Dec. 2, 2010 in Health

Answers (10)
  • I think you need to call your doctor because I have no idea. But I doubt "it" is feeding at night.
    tyfry7496

    Answer by tyfry7496 at 1:17 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • OP here, what i meant was my SO thinks my lactation is hot and he suckles at night.
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 1:21 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • How long since you have had your miscarriage? I think that that would be the reason. It sometimes takes your body awhile to get back to normal.
    Melbornj

    Answer by Melbornj at 1:21 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • Breast feeding keeps your period at bay so its possible.
    bjojola

    Answer by bjojola at 1:25 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • its been a little over 2 weeks...
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 1:25 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • any suckling will keep you producing, even if its just a little....and that would gross me out by the way, I'd be worried about what other fetishes he has.
    an-apple-a-day

    Answer by an-apple-a-day at 1:26 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • its really the only weird thing hes into i would never have guessed this prior to all of this happening but it really doesnt bother me... i makes me fell kinda sexy after everything we've been through.
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 1:28 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • I would not be worried until a couple of months go by and you have not had a period. It takes awhile for your hormones to get back to a normal state and gets periods going. The other ladies are right though brestfeeding can also keep your period at bay. I agree with the other people that it is a bit disturbing but I am sure that many fetishes to other people that do not share them come across as disturbing.
    Melbornj

    Answer by Melbornj at 1:29 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • it's called supply & demand...sucking = milk
    Karkie22

    Answer by Karkie22 at 1:38 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • it doesn't matter if he sucks just a little bit or doesn't empty your boob out. Even if it's once a day....supply & demand!
    Karkie22

    Answer by Karkie22 at 1:39 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

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