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Which is more difficult......

The first year of marriage OR The first year with a baby???

I say the first year with a baby.


Asked by Conley639 at 3:58 PM on Dec. 2, 2010 in Just for Fun

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Answers (19)
  • Wait.... aren't those the same thing? Either way there's a baby involved... one just happens to be an adult male. Lol

    First year with baby is my choice BTW. :)

    Answer by Memigen at 4:11 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • The last year of marriage...

    Answer by ShouldHaveLeft at 3:59 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • LOL at Should have left........

    MY ONLY YEAR of marriage!

    My son was a breeze!!!!!!!!

    Answer by LilyPondOasis at 4:01 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • For us.

    First year with baby.

    We were married 6 years before we had our only. Our relationship/lifestyles..etc.. Changed when our only came along. It was definitely an adjustment.

    Answer by pixie_trix at 4:01 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • baby

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 3:59 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • I would agree...but my first year of marriage included the birth of our daughter so I think that made my hubby and my relationship different from the beginning.

    Answer by MrsJStearns at 4:00 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • both because i just got married and had a baby

    Answer by babbykrissy at 4:00 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • it probably would depend on the circumstances of the marriage, resources available to the new mom, etc. for me it was the first year of my first born, just because i was battling post partum anxiety, dealing with the baby's father abandoning us, living with my mom, trying to go to school & work & be a good mom to my baby. although, the first year of being married was no picnic either. even though we were friends for 6 years before our marriage we did not know eachother nearly well enough to be married. we had a baby together and assumed it was the right thing to do. although i do not regret it because our 2 year is coming up soon, i have never been more in love and im proud to call him my hubby.

    Answer by tnm786 at 4:02 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • Baby of course. The first year of marriage is fun!

    Answer by mompam at 4:02 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • It depends on what you go through. Your baby could have disablities, or your husband could cheat.

    But for me. Both were easy, so far (baby is only 3 months)

    Answer by AbsoluteSelf at 4:00 PM on Dec. 2, 2010