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would u date a man with 4 underage kids? what is your limit?


Asked by maya123 at 6:24 PM on Dec. 2, 2010 in Relationships

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  • That would depend on how many different women he had those children with and if he takes care of them..

    Answer by midnightmoma at 6:26 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • Well, I have 4 underage kids myself. So should I find myself back in the dating pool, it would be hypocritical of me not to for that reason.

    Answer by mandaday at 6:26 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • Nope, I wouldn't date a man with kids, period. Doesn't matter how many, I just couldn't do it.

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 6:27 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • Probably not. That would just be too much to get used to.

    Answer by LovingSAHMommy at 6:30 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • Honestly, that many kids is going to come with a lot of baggage. You can't name a number and say "I'm going to stop there" though, it all depends on how much of a connection you feel and how badly you want to pursue the guy. If he's worth it, then he's worth it. Only you know the answer to that though!

    Answer by an-apple-a-day at 6:25 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • No way.

    Answer by chocolatluver at 6:28 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • no !

    Answer by bekkaboo89 at 6:28 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • I would not date a man with four underage children. Why would you want to be with a man like that? why can you not find a nice single guy with no drama. baby mama drama girl please find yourself a nice single no baggage or burden attached. Thats alot of baggage!! Your life will be a living hell. Be good to yourself and do not do this.

    Answer by sinnerchristian at 6:30 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • am not sure. i think it would depend on who the man was

    Answer by mommyof310 at 7:05 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • I dated him, and married him. It worked out, we have been married for 13 years and his kids are now aged 23-21. We have 2 together 3 and 5. I won't lie it was HARD!

    Answer by Bubbie0809 at 6:26 PM on Dec. 2, 2010