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would u date a man with 4 underage kids? what is your limit?

 
maya123

Asked by maya123 at 6:24 PM on Dec. 2, 2010 in Relationships

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  • That would depend on how many different women he had those children with and if he takes care of them..
    midnightmoma

    Answer by midnightmoma at 6:26 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • Well, I have 4 underage kids myself. So should I find myself back in the dating pool, it would be hypocritical of me not to for that reason.
    mandaday

    Answer by mandaday at 6:26 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • Nope, I wouldn't date a man with kids, period. Doesn't matter how many, I just couldn't do it.
    SabrinaMBowen

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 6:27 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • Probably not. That would just be too much to get used to.
    LovingSAHMommy

    Answer by LovingSAHMommy at 6:30 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • Honestly, that many kids is going to come with a lot of baggage. You can't name a number and say "I'm going to stop there" though, it all depends on how much of a connection you feel and how badly you want to pursue the guy. If he's worth it, then he's worth it. Only you know the answer to that though!
    an-apple-a-day

    Answer by an-apple-a-day at 6:25 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • No way.
    chocolatluver

    Answer by chocolatluver at 6:28 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • no !
    bekkaboo89

    Answer by bekkaboo89 at 6:28 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • I would not date a man with four underage children. Why would you want to be with a man like that? why can you not find a nice single guy with no drama. baby mama drama girl please find yourself a nice single no baggage or burden attached. Thats alot of baggage!! Your life will be a living hell. Be good to yourself and do not do this.
    sinnerchristian

    Answer by sinnerchristian at 6:30 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • am not sure. i think it would depend on who the man was
    mommyof310

    Answer by mommyof310 at 7:05 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

  • I dated him, and married him. It worked out, we have been married for 13 years and his kids are now aged 23-21. We have 2 together 3 and 5. I won't lie it was HARD!
    Bubbie0809

    Answer by Bubbie0809 at 6:26 PM on Dec. 2, 2010

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