I am a nice person who doesn't talk shit about anyone to other people. I will complain about their ACTIONS but only to my husband and parents. Because I know that they will keep what I say to themselves. Well my "wonderful" sister in law keeps trying to start a fight with me. I have never done anything to this girl besides for tell my parents that I don't like the way she treats my brother. Now she is bringing MY children into it, she keeps posting crap on facebook for my family and friends to see about how well behaved her child is until he gets around my kids. I know I shouldn't let this bother me, but it does. Her son is an only child and thinks that everyone should cater to his every need. He is 2 years old and doesn't play well with other kids. My 2 kids will play nicely with him, and then he will punch them, throw rocks at them and push them down. My kids are 4 and 3. My son will protect his sister and then my sister in law will tell my son not to hit. It is to the point where if she leaves her child outside and I am out there I will send him back inside just so I dont have to deal with it. She doesn't want me to correct her child for misbehaving but she has no problem, doing it to mine. I have told her that they are my kids and if they are misbehaving I will correct them, but if they are provoked I will not.
She tells everyone I am a bitch, and a slut because I got pregnant before I married. But I married my kids dad and my kids are very well taken care of. No one in my family knows that I got married before I got pregnant, which is a long story.
I am just tired of getting talked down to and I dont know how to stand up to her. I am way to nice and I tend to let people walk all over me.
I just dont know what to do.
edited to add: I ONLY send her child back in if she, my brother or parents are not out there to keep an eye on him. And the only place we see each other at is my parents, because she is banned from my house
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