So we've been together for a couple of years and were very close for about 5 before that (a sort of lovers to friends thing). Our daughter is 9 months old. A few weeks ago I happened to look through his phone and found texts to and from a certain girl with her saying things like 'I'll ring your house phone in a bit' and 'I won't let distance come between us' and him saying 'We'll have to go to a hotel to have time alone'. I woke him up cussing and throwing the phone at him and he said he met her at a club but he hadn't physically cheated and they never ended up going to a hotel and they hadnt spoke for a month or so. After a couple of days of arguing I let it go and tried to make him happier at home.
So he used my phone the other day and text someone saying he'll be there in 30min, and had deleted what he'd sent before that. I found on his phone texts from the same number saying things like 'Good morning, and 'What do you want for xmas' and him texting her like 'I hope u slept well'. He told me it was the same girl as before. I cussed and cussed and rang her but she didnt answer and then text me like 'ask him' when I said tell me how long you have been sleeping with him, since he told me he hadn't but I figured that was rubbish. She said he told her he wasnt seeing anyone, obviously, and I should ask him. So I come back in the room where he was only to find he had text her saying 'baby mums gonna ring you ignore it' and 'she seen texts lol'.
I want to kill this bitch. She is so lucky he will not tell me where she lives. I want to mess him up so bad he is so lucky he is my daughters father or I think I would kill him too. I want to believe that he hasn't slept with her and that he'll stop talking to her but thats what I believed the last time and he done it again.
How can I make him stop or atleast admit he doesnt want to be with me and be man enough to say it. This is not the guy I was friends with years ago nor the guy I fell in love with. :( I'm going crazy, and he just acts like everythings normal because he 'didn't cheat'. What to do?
Asked by Anonymous at 8:46 AM on Dec. 3, 2010 in Relationships
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