My husband does not understand why or how I could be be depressed with staying home alllll the time with both kids. He says its a vacation and "easy".. I mean really. he makes me feel like what I do is not important or even "needed" So feeding the kids snt a "need" playing with them, CLEANING, doing HIS laundry... I mean its JUSTSOOOOOOO easy right? So why cant he do it? I have never been away from both kids longer than 5 hours.. AANNND its at NIGHT when they are in bed... He goes snowboarding in thw winter and Camping in the summer. I have NO hobbies and when he goes I ask him what i should do and he said just clean/do laundry.. So I am supposed to do my day to day stuff and call that a hobby??? I want to go back to school finish my GED. the classes are on saturday afternoons. his response "If i get back on time" orr the one that pissed me offmroe than tht was cant you just go during the summer?? BUT yet he wants me to get a job.... Kinda need the GED FIRST dont ya think!! And no we dont have the mney for babysitters or daycare. How could I NOT be depressed. any advice on what to do/say i would be very appreciative! Thank you!Answer Question
Answer by tootoobusy at 10:52 AM on Dec. 3, 2010
He sounds a little selfish and self centered to me. Hon, you have to make your own happiness, no one can do it for you, Start with baby steps and go from there. Do what ever it is you need to do, I don't know the internal problems in your home, but it seems to me someone has to change his neanderthal way of thinking for starters.......GL
Answer by zbee at 10:54 AM on Dec. 3, 2010
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Answer by KFree907 at 10:56 AM on Dec. 3, 2010
You are not in a relationship, but a dictatorship. I would tell him his behavior is a total deal breaker. This is your life too! You need to get your education and a job if you want one. He needs to be a FATHER not a SPERM DONNER. If he won't change, I would leave him. You only get one life.
Answer by salexander at 10:59 AM on Dec. 3, 2010
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