I was married for 9 years before my ex-husband came to me and told me he was gay. Everyone was shocked beyond belief when he "came out" because you would never have known from his actions, mannerisms and personality that he was a gay man. I really don't want this to happen again...but what are the chances it could happen again?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:54 AM on Dec. 3, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by leksismommy at 10:57 AM on Dec. 3, 2010
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Answer by ShouldHaveLeft at 10:58 AM on Dec. 3, 2010
Anything is possible, I'm so sorry you had to deal with that, it had to be devastating for you. I've heard that many married men are on the down low and to me, that is so cruel to the wife. Not to mention the diseases he could bring home to her. I'm glad your out of it and really don't have gay-dar for these guys, their pretty tricky and discreet in all ways as you've found out.
Answer by zbee at 11:00 AM on Dec. 3, 2010
well that sucks. i cant imagine how u felt. you have no idea how many guys are on the down low these days. and these men dont act feminine at all. i have been on many dates with supposedly straight men and after couple dates i would tell them that i have some news; i would then tell them that i was actually born a male but had a sex change and a boob job. i would then ask them if they would still be open to keep on dating me and you wouldn't believe ! 75% said yes they would be open to it. i always pull that trick and i am amazed how many men are on the down low. btw;; i look nothing like a man, i am as feminine looking as they come. i also have had guys freak out on me when i tell them i was born a "guy" lol. but then i tell them the truth and they settle down after some coaxing.
Answer by maya123 at 11:28 AM on Dec. 3, 2010
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