Let me give you ladies a brief history of each guy...
Andres is my ex. We were together 4 years. We had a baby together. He didn't always treat me right...we fought all the time and he got too comfortable with me and stopped telling me he loved me and eventually started using dating sites and stuff so we split up. We've been split up for a year. Yesterday he moved back to El Salvador because he says that he has "nothing here," pretty much broke my heart. I loved him but we just weren't good for each other. He wants me to come and be with him in El Salvador someday and we both know that's not going to happen...I guess it's just his way of not being able to let go.
Jason is this guy I met a few weeks ago. He likes me a lot and he treats me very nicely. He is also very understanding of the fact that I want to take things slow. He bought me flowers and has taken me on 3 dates...dinner and museum and stuff like that. He's very nice. He's just not really the type I'd go for normally physically...he's almost the exact opposite. I don't think he's ugly..but at the same time I'm not super attracted to him either but looks aren't everything and I'm thinking that in time when/if I develop stronger feelings that won't matter anyway and he'll become attractive to me.
My problem is...last night I stayed at his house with him and I drank a lot. It was stupid but I was super depressed (don't get the wrong idea, I don't drink hardly EVER) and my ex called me from Guatemala to tell me he made it and that made things a little awkward. Well I ended up drunkely throwing myself at him and now I'm feeling really weird about it. I've been feeling uneasy all day. I don't think it's anything he did.
Do you ladies think that maybe as I get to know him better and start to get used to the idea that I will never see my ex again, the weirdness will go away? Should I tell the guy to just forget it? I'm torn...he's really nice and I think I like him...I just feel so weird today, I don't even know what it is that I'm feeling.
Asked by Anonymous at 5:18 PM on Dec. 3, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Steph319 at 5:25 PM on Dec. 3, 2010
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