i am 24 years old i have been w/ dh for all kost 10 years ( on and off ) we have 2 great kids. when we sarted dating in 8th grade he was totaly my "dream" guy. after growing up together we kinda, i guess we have just grown apart. first of all we have never had a great relationship, he has always hated my parents and my paretns have never liked him. i guess its safe to say that when we first started dating he came off as this great amazing guy who would do anything for me. as the years went on he seemed to get mean ans short w/ me. he kissed other girls and a time or 2 that i know of he went fartherw/ other girls, but i can look past that we were just kids, i had even stepped out on him and was hanging out w/ another guy that i went to school w/ who i started to have real feelings for so i know i dont really have ne room to talk there. and here lately it seems like all we do is fight and he bitches about everything, i kno neither of us r happy nemore. i know hes unhappy cuz he tells me and im unhappy cuz all he does is insult me and all i want is to b w/ some1 who respects me and doesnt treat me like im a dog. i know i love him but i dont think that im in love w/ him nemore. that makes me really sad. i dont wanna b unhappy nemore but at the same time i dont want my kids to grow up / out their father and i say that he wouldnt b there cuz other times ive he didnt make an effort to come and visit or nething, there was a time when i was preg. w/ dd and i had already had ds he told me that he went to a girls house and played w/ her ds who was a bout the same age as ours, and hat hurt so much its like u can take the time out to go play w/ this other kid but u cant come c ur own! and our sex life has just gone to shit, all he does is watch porn and that makes me feel horrible like im ugly and fat and if we do have sex all i can think about well is he thinking about his porn? i just feel like im goin to b unhappy for the rest of my life and theres nothing i can do about it, i feel like if we did end up seperating that i wouldnt ever date agin for the simple fact for 1 i look like im fucking 15 years old and im really freakin shy and it all jus sux. and i have so much more to say but i dont have enough room. sry it was so long i just i just needed to vent thanx for reading.
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