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Im Getting Married In A Year.What Is Some Good Advice?

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MaybeMommy1994

Asked by MaybeMommy1994 at 11:50 PM on Dec. 3, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (13)
  • don't do it, it's too hard to get out of. LOL.
    FluffyMamaBunny

    Answer by FluffyMamaBunny at 11:52 PM on Dec. 3, 2010

  • Chose your bridal party very careful. You'd be surprised how many brides have bickering bridesmaids or bridesmaids that dont want to help with anything
    bseastrand

    Answer by bseastrand at 11:53 PM on Dec. 3, 2010

  • Communicate with your partner he is not psychic
    Trust
    Patience
    Be Honest
    GL!
    Truelove77

    Answer by Truelove77 at 11:53 PM on Dec. 3, 2010

  • Start counseling now so you can solve your currant problems and learn how to solve problems that arrise in your marrige later.
    sunshine58103

    Answer by sunshine58103 at 11:55 PM on Dec. 3, 2010

  • dont do it
    letstalk747

    Answer by letstalk747 at 11:57 PM on Dec. 3, 2010

  • well just be the best wife you can be & honest loyal trustworthy patient always keep forward & have alot of faith
    Ricanmami1

    Answer by Ricanmami1 at 11:59 PM on Dec. 3, 2010

  • Remember as the wedding gets closer and life gets stressful that it is the marriage that matters not the wedding. Take time for each other during this time and put the focus on you as a couple.
    tony1638

    Answer by tony1638 at 12:03 AM on Dec. 4, 2010

  • Get pre-marital counseling through your church so that you can feel more free to discuss the topics that are difficult now. (Of course, you may not have any.) Until we saw the priest at our church, we never really discussed the finances for some reason. There are other important topics that a priest brings up for a discussion. Congratulations!!! If he is the right man for you, go ahead and get married. It is fun if you are with the right man and and work on it everyday. Flirt everyday with each other even after you get married. Give each other a REAL kiss every single day. Be creative in keeping the romance going - both of you. It is very important. We have been married a little over three years. However, we still act like newly weds even after we had our son. :-D
    Svetlana98usa

    Answer by Svetlana98usa at 12:08 AM on Dec. 4, 2010

  • If you argue a lot now, it will only get worse. Make sure you really have each other's backs. No one (except your kids) should come before each other.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:08 AM on Dec. 4, 2010

  • Remember that no matter what happens at the wedding what matters is that you will be married at the end of the day and that should be what is most important. After the wedding day, comes the marriage.
    Svetlana98usa

    Answer by Svetlana98usa at 12:11 AM on Dec. 4, 2010

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