When I was pregnant, my husband would make me feel bad for being emotional. I would cry and he would yell at me. When I was in the hospital after giving birth to our son, my husband didn't even bring me flowers. Even after my mother told him not to make the same mistake my father did by not getting flowers! Mother's day was the following Sunday, and he didn't get me a gift or even a card. NADA. I was so hurt.... I had been through so much with the pregnancy... I told him how hurt I was by this. He said sorry, but it wasn't sincere, and he hasn't done much of anything to make up for it except let me pick out a cheap locket that broke almost instantly about a month later. He couldn't even bother to put a photo in it. These might seem like petty things, but to me it appears that his heart just isn't in this... I now have some serious resentment toward him and can't seem to shake it. I feel bad for my baby son, that things took such a bad turn right when he entered the world. Thoughts?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:21 AM on Dec. 4, 2010 in Relationships
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I don't know if my DH would've lived after telling me I was "too emotional" while I was pregnant. Hell, I don't know if he would live if he told me that now! LOL! But it sounds like your DH is a bit ( and I use the word "bit" loosely) selfish. He needs to tune into you better and understand your needs and wants. Maybe he needs to grow up and realize it's not all about him.
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