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dh problems how do u deal?

Problem 1) he yells to much
2) he won't say he's wrong till later if at all
3) he only home from work 4 to 8 days a month
4) I wrong if he has something to say about it
5) his way is the way
6) can't do what I want when he home unless I make a big deal about it
I love him still I thing he did alway was this way I don't know what to do to help. I don't want to take his 4 kids a way from their dad but sometime I think I might need to.

Any one have nice ideas about how to help me and my dh for us and the kids?

 
3momamber

Asked by 3momamber at 11:32 AM on Dec. 4, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (6)
  • counseling
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 11:41 AM on Dec. 4, 2010

  • Read the book Boundaries. It will help you see the pattern and how to stop it.
    stickyfingers

    Answer by stickyfingers at 1:32 PM on Dec. 4, 2010

  • 4 - 8 days a MONTH? I'd work around him. If I knew he was like that I'd let him think he was king of his castle for 8 days then kiss him and send him back to work so I could get back to real life while he's gone again.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 2:41 PM on Dec. 4, 2010

  • You need to give a little and he needs to give a little. Communication is the key.
    JackieGirl007

    Answer by JackieGirl007 at 7:46 PM on Dec. 4, 2010

  • I have communicate and it help 4 a while then he takes a step back
    3momamber

    Comment by 3momamber (original poster) at 8:50 AM on Dec. 5, 2010

  • Counseling and its "deal" not "dell".
    hobbitswife04

    Answer by hobbitswife04 at 1:30 PM on Dec. 4, 2010