I am so lost. I was planning on getting back together with my son's father but everything just got so out of hand and I made some really, really bad decisions. He lives in San Diego and I live in Yuma. Well he left when I was 22 weeks pregnant for a lot of reasons that I wont go into well when I was about 34 weeks I went up there for my baby shower and we started talking about getting back together after Chris was born so me and Chris could move up there. Well while I was still in Yuma, I was dating this amazing guy, well when Chris was being born they both were in the hospital and my son's father found out I was dating this other dude and said I was cheating and all kinds of things. That just made everything worse. Well he left the day after Chris was born with only seeing him once and not talking to me at all. At first things were really bad but now we are talking and like mature adults and all. But I still love him and think of him daily and regret what I did so bad. I really wish I could take it back but I know I can't. And to make all this worse I just found out that he was going to ask me to marry him when he got down here, he had a ring and everything. I am just lost on what to do or even what to think right now....
Answer by JackieGirl007 at 7:31 PM on Dec. 4, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 2:54 PM on Dec. 4, 2010
Sounds like neither of you were fully committed to each other and I really feel sad for your child it was that way. You have a right to be mad at him and he at you. If you loved each other he wouldn't have left and you wouldn't have moved on. You should both try to be excellent parents to your child and put romance with anyone on the back burner until you both can get your sh*t together.
Answer by Anonymous at 3:04 PM on Dec. 4, 2010
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Answer by lisa_ann_p at 3:23 PM on Dec. 4, 2010
Talking like mature adults and all? Bwaaaaaaaaaaaahaaaaaaaaaaaahaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Nothing about this was handled like mature adults. If it was, you wouldn't be in this predicament!
First, you're pregnant - by your "boyfriend", and you're clearly not commited to each other, you broke up during the pregnancy.
Then, also during the pregnancy, you're dating this other guy.
And then, you decide to get back with the boyfriend. Who finds out that you've been with this other guy while you're pregnant with his kid. And break up again.
You "still love him"? You haven't even figured out what that means yet! This isn't jr. high school, you're about to be a parent! Grow up!
Answer by Anonymous at 3:26 PM on Dec. 4, 2010
Answer by Liansmommie at 3:26 PM on Dec. 4, 2010