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Is it always wise to tell your SO what you're thinking?


Asked by raynestar at 3:09 PM on Dec. 4, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I don't have to tell him he can tell by just looking at me. My husband knows me too

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:11 PM on Dec. 4, 2010

  • No just like it's not wise that they tell you what they're always thinking.

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 3:13 PM on Dec. 4, 2010

  • I wouldn't think so. We all have odd thoughts from time to time that nobody else needs to know.

    Answer by Fistandantalus at 3:11 PM on Dec. 4, 2010

  • No

    Answer by Shines3 at 3:12 PM on Dec. 4, 2010

  • No. Some thoughts are meant to be private. I have a weird sense of humor sometimes and things strick me funny that won't go over well with him. I just keep it to myself so I don't hurt his feelings.

    Answer by Cindy18 at 3:12 PM on Dec. 4, 2010

  • a tell him a LOT, he is the one person i am open with about everything. but there are times when i think it's best to keep my mouth shut so i dont say something i regret later.

    Answer by jennifer588 at 3:14 PM on Dec. 4, 2010

  • on some things yes it is but for me almost all the time no it really isnt

    Answer by eaglesbaby1 at 3:20 PM on Dec. 4, 2010

  • I tell my husband EVERYTHING! I have nothing to hide. Whether it is good or bad, he will know what I am feeling or thinking. Open communication and honesty is what makes our marriage work.

    Answer by Katie80620 at 3:41 PM on Dec. 4, 2010

  • I tell him everything because I trust him to be open-minded about anything I have to say or think. I respect him enough to do the same.

    When you stop talking, issues start and secrecy is a big problem in all relationships.

    Answer by Jademom07 at 3:41 PM on Dec. 4, 2010

  • noooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

    Answer by admckenzie at 3:42 PM on Dec. 4, 2010