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Analyze this please....

your spouse asks you if you will be ok with something and you say no, they do it behind your back anyway.

you have an agreement and they break it under the idea that the intentions matter more then the actions..
whats going on in this relationship and how to fix it..


Asked by Anonymous at 3:37 PM on Dec. 4, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (7)
  • if they are going about it behind your back even after you said that you had a problem with it, it identifies a lack of respect for the other person.

    They have to understand that it's wrong for you to be able to fix it. if they don't acknowledge that they are in the wrong, there is no fix.

    Answer by Jademom07 at 3:39 PM on Dec. 4, 2010

  • Lack of respect for each others opinion.

    Answer by older at 3:38 PM on Dec. 4, 2010

  • Lack of respect and consideration

    Answer by wheresthewayout at 3:43 PM on Dec. 4, 2010

  • depends what IT is

    Answer by fiatpax at 4:18 PM on Dec. 4, 2010

  • I don't know how to fix it other than to talk about it.
    If it's agreed that it not be done and it's done anyway, sometimes good intentions are there... sometimes not.
    Choose your battles when possible.

    Answer by lisa_ann_p at 4:30 PM on Dec. 4, 2010

  • Do the same thing to him and see how he likes it. THen you can talk about it. Hehe

    Answer by JackieGirl007 at 7:25 PM on Dec. 4, 2010


    Do not put up with this, if you let it go......

    He will be forever disrespecting you .

    Answer by SissyAnn141 at 12:24 AM on Dec. 5, 2010