my stepdaughter lives with us now to go to colledge.She is 18.I came into the picture when she was 4.I love her dearly>But her father refuses to let her grow up.He refuses to make her do chores.He refuses to make her pay financially for some of her needs.She pays no rent, no food, ect.We gave her our old car and paid her insurane.
she works parttime.I want her to be independant and able to take care of her self one day.He just says "Let me take care of my little girl.Will you"I tell him she is not a little girl anymore and he gets mad at me.what am I supposed to do?
She is attending colledge.And acts grown up when it benefits her.Acts helpless when it beneifts her too.Answer Question
Answer by Anonymous at 9:13 PM on Dec. 4, 2010
Answer by twinkletoes0408 at 9:15 PM on Dec. 4, 2010
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Answer by xbabygirlz at 9:22 PM on Dec. 4, 2010
Answer by MamaAlice54 at 9:26 PM on Dec. 4, 2010
Honestly, Going to Collage & Working a part-time job is showing that she is becoming Independent- I paid all of my daughter's bills for 4 Years while she was in collage- and she has become the Most Independent Little Lady i know:) Cut her a Break; she really is not ready to take on all the steps of Adulthood Yet............. Sorry!
Answer by daisyb at 9:29 PM on Dec. 4, 2010
Answer by mrsmom110 at 9:32 PM on Dec. 4, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 4:16 AM on Dec. 5, 2010
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