my husband has been talking to his ex-girlfriend from when we were separated 5 years ago off and on. I recently saw emails, txts and phone calls. He says that nothing has happened and he is merely being friends. He was on the phone once for hour and half last week. He says everything is fine now and if I am insecure he cannot do anything about it and that I will always be insecure. I asked him to write her an email and cc me telling her that he has not intention of going back to her and loves his wife and kids and cc me on it. He will not do it. I don't think he has had any physical relationship with her since we got together. She has written in her emails to him how she is saddened that he chooses to live in a marriage of antipathy. She says to him that the kids need to be in an environment of love and support to grow up to me good men. They are 14 and 17 now. He sent her pictures of the kids recently from his phone.Pls help.
Answer by roxy92si at 1:55 AM on Dec. 5, 2010
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Answer by musicpisces at 1:22 AM on Dec. 5, 2010
I think you should consult a lawyer to protect your and your children future financial security. Since you can not control him, why not take this opportunity to explore what you really want out of life. Is this the only issue between the two of you? Maybe if he sees that you are moving on with life, he will let go of what once was and move on with you. Personally, my husband and I do not have friends of the opposite sex but we are probably old fashion that way. I wish you and your children every happiness.
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