Ok where to begin well im here at home 24/7 with my daughter while my husband works almost 5-7 days out the week so when he finally gets a day or two off he just wants to be home cus either he worked all week and he just wants to relax or cus hes never home and i hate it cus im home 24/7 and i never go anywhere neither does my daughter so today he was off and we were gonna go out i got ready he got ready and i got my daughter ready he left to get some keys from his work and he took my daughter so i can get ready then he comes home and hes here on the laptop and im waiting for him so we can leave then his co worker texts him to tell him she has a laptop that needs to be fix so he says ok she drops it off and its just getting later and later i kept telling him are we gonna go anywhere hes like well if you want but i really dont feel like it im like ok lets go and hes like hold on im doing something and the time passes by i look at the clock and its already like 9:30 pm so i tell him to put my daughter to bed and he says ok and he said to make sure her bed is clear off and i was like ok and i came back i told him i was done and i *sighed* and hes like whats wrong and i told him i wanted to go somewhere and now its to late hes like oh well 2marrow is another day and so we end up fighting and he pushes me cus i keep nagging at him and he just goes to bed without saying sorry ..ladies help me out here is that being selfishAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 1:30 AM on Dec. 5, 2010 in Relationships
Sounds like you are more of the selfish one. Even if you are at home and don't have a car, you can still get out of the house and nothing is stopping you from getting out on the weekends when he wants to stay at home.
Answer by JeremysMom at 1:33 AM on Dec. 5, 2010
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Answer by Krysta622 at 9:02 AM on Dec. 5, 2010
Did you think that maybe he thinks your being selfish? I'm a SAHM, so I know how you feel. BUT, he is gone all the time. Maybe he just wants to be at home and lounge. When he is home and doesn't want to go out, then you go by yourself. Leave your DD and get out for some retail therapy. Go to a movie or whatever. This gets you out and gives you a break. Then bring home an indoor picnic for the family. I know how hard it is to have time alone and you want to spend time with DH, but maybe he wants a break too. I'm sorry I'm not much help, but I hope things get better.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 9:38 AM on Dec. 5, 2010
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