was outside yesterday, it snowed, snowman making time
neighbors were making theirs
my daughter wlked over there (houses close together, neighbors all know each other)
the father was there making snowman with 7 girl od daughter and his son 4 yrs old
my daughter is three and has speech delay (autism)
i was standing there
the boy-4- made fun of what my daughter was saying-trying to say, she does not speeak much and very hard to understand when she does use language
i heard it, he must have, he did nothing
i took her inside our house soon after
i know this boy is having issues, mother has said things about his behavoir and the troubles they have with him, but ignoring the comments/teasing that a 4 yr old makes about another child with delays??
i would have said something and i have when no other adult around, but when the parent is there, i do not think it is my place to tell child it is not nice etc..
what would you do?
this boy has always been mean to my daughter (2 months living here) and this boy has some kind of speech delay but not as bad as my daughter=maybe it is he was picked on so he picks on child who is weaker??
Answer by Ash9724 at 4:08 PM on Dec. 5, 2010
The child has to be taught to be nice. If his parents aren't teaching him, no wonder he isn't being nice. Tell the boy it's not nice to make fun of other people and ask him how he would like it if someone made fun of him. I think the little boy is being teased, it would make sense that he is teasing others. Definitely talk to him mother about it and have her talk to his preschool. I'm sorry your kids is being teased. It makes me mad when my kids get teased.
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