I'm 4 weeks pregnant and already have a son with the father of my unborn. He is not the greatest guy but loves his son. We have been on and off and arguing and not really getting along. We were slowly building a relationship back..which resulted in this unplanned pregnancy. I am for the most part a single mom and glad to say not struggling. I will pretty much be a single mom to two kids. Ever since I told him I was pregnant he has been a complete JERK to me to the point where I break down and cry and he doesn't care. He says its because of something that happened 3 yrs ago. He is upset I moved to my parents house 3000miles away and he wasn't part of my sons birth and wasn't around until he was about 2. We since moved closer to him because I want my son to have a father in his life. He doesn't seem to care about this baby and I'm hurt by it so much that I am comtemplating an abortion. I don't want to be a single mom of two alone with a man that is so cruel to me. A part me of says that its my baby and shouldn't care if he's around or not and I should just have my baby since he/she has already been created. I don't want to harm/kill my baby because of him. I already love this baby and its going to be hard because he/she wasn't created in love.. I can go on forever and I'm to the point where I'm so emtionally draine, lost, confused and hurt. I really don't know what to do and its so hard waking up everyday knowing its not a dream and that I'm single and pregnant by a man who pretty much hates me.
I'm in tears writing this and so hurt. If you feel this is a troll question please don't answer.
Asked by Anonymous at 7:11 PM on Dec. 5, 2010 in Pregnancy
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