so my ma is homeless right now and staying with a friend. now that things have fallen all aprt she is calling me day after day after day to talk about nothing. When she was doing well she didnt want me in her house or barely called me. When she talks now she is depressed and about what she is trying to do. She has been doing this off and on my whole life. she only cares about her problems and/or will not admit to her part in something falling apart.
I tell her I'm stressed about my situation and she is not listening she just brings it back to her. I am like man. I stoped taking her calls. Sometimes she will call 4xs a day. I know she may think something is wrong but not like she got a way down here, she can't send money, nothing to really help me out. the few times she did "help" me I had to pay for it. Like she came out to help me I would have to pay for all the gas, all the other stuff, and all her gas going home. You know she grown and still bumming off of me.
I just hate to see her calling me (in a way) because I know it is nothing positive. To switch it up she ask how my son is but I don't really like her doing a whole lot with him. it's like I rather him have no grandma than my mom. I know it amy sound mean but my mother has never been there for me like that. She blamed me for a lot of her problems, her negativity messes with me know cause have no support. We live in the same state but she wasnt with me when I had my son. She told my sister she didnt belive me. I told her that really hurt me that you, my mo, wasn't there for me when I had my son. All she could say ell God was there. ....... Like she just can't accept that she was wrong.
Answer by DevilInPigtails at 8:22 PM on Dec. 5, 2010
Answer by KA91 at 8:41 PM on Dec. 5, 2010