My DH and I have a friend who's moving. She asked me last week if she could borrow him for a couple hrs today to move the big stuff; well I said as long as she didn't keep him all day that was fine. She knows how much my hubby works and how difficult things have been for us. Well apparently she is blatantly disrespecting my request because her BIL and MIL (the mil lives with them) decided to ditch. Now don't think I'm just some Bitch. I wouldn't mind if first she had ASKED is I needed him home anytime soon. And if when I texted her to ask about their progress she didn't just give me some flip response saying she was smoking pot (she doesn't do that it was supposed to be a joke apparently). She's had him since 10 am it's now almost 7 and I'm seriously considering deleting her off my FB and removing her number from my phone. Our boys haven't even seen him today AT ALL! Grrrrr.....
Sorry about venting I'm not asking for sympathy or anything I just wanted to give you a bit of background. I honestly just want to know what you would personally do in this situation.
PS when hubby got there they weren't even close to being done packing. Which is something he can't help with.
Answer by princessbeth79 at 8:40 PM on Dec. 5, 2010
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Answer by LanaisSky96 at 8:57 PM on Dec. 5, 2010
Hmmm... if it were me, I would've gotten in the car and took a trip over there. I feel your husband should've called or texted you too. The moving process is taking too long and I'm not saying it doesn't take that long to move for some people. But! Me being the kind of person I am, I would NEVER keep someone's man for that many hours for ANYTHING! I'm not saying anything's going on, but it's disrespectful. He's not just some single Joe helping out.
Answer by LanaisSky96 at 8:46 PM on Dec. 5, 2010
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Answer by SissyAnn141 at 9:40 PM on Dec. 5, 2010