My son's biological father(J) is wanting to be apart of his life and I am totally okay with that, I want him to be. However, (here is the sticky part)..When I found out I was pregnant w/him I had just left Braden's biological father b/c of his illegal lifestyle & got back w/my on again/off again B/F(tony) who was more than willing to look past Braden not being his child and treating him as his own, so I let him. Braden has Tony's last name and is very much a part of his family now. We had a girl together and were a "Happy Family" Braden adores his daddy(Tony) & Braden has Tony's heart he IS his son. My ? is should I complicate things even more by bringing Braden's real Dad into the picture when Braden is so happy with the way things are now? Tony & I are no longer together after 6yrs but still friends and we both see both kids everyday & are civil. I don't want to crush Tony's world by letting Braden meet his real dad but sooner or later Braden is gonna wonder why he is darker than Mommy,Daddy, & Sissy. What should I do?! (J) wants to see his boy & he has that right but I don't want to hurt Tony or confuse Braden b/c to me Tony is Braden's Daddy no matter what DNA proves. Plz Help Ladies Plz!! I'm stuck... )': I don't want my baby boy to be anymore confused than he already is with the whole break-up he just went through with his Dad(Tony) & I...
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